Comments on: You Can Gain And Lose Weight With Law Of Attraction

By: Law of Attraction Video

Law of Attraction Video — Sun, 03 Jan 2010 14:47:34 +0000

Very nice post. Weight loss by using the law of attraction is true. I have a friend who, after giving birth, was 175 lbs. She thought she was too fat and needed something to help her loose weight. I told her about the law of attraction. At first she was hesitant but I told her to just try it and explained to her that its not an overnight process and it takes time to reach that goal. After a year, her weight was now 140 lbs. for a 5’6” lady. And she is also learning the law of attraction in other aspects of life too. Something to ponder.

By: Patrick

Patrick — Sun, 29 Nov 2009 09:30:19 +0000

I’m in the same boat, let’s face fat is not pretty. I know some guys like fat women, I’m not one of them. Fat is just a big turn off for me. I love the woman I married not twice the woman I married.

By: rhdtv2002

rhdtv2002 — Sun, 29 Nov 2009 08:31:59 +0000

I am in the same predicament.

The truth is..I do side with the poster – nowhere does the guy say he stop loving her, but he does not find her attractive..Remember he changed ONLY because she changed and we are not talking about a couple of pounds, let alone 20-40lbs…We are talking about a transformation of a person – most people probably wouldnt even recognize his wife if they see her before the weight gain then after..The weight is not healthy and thus not attractive either…There is no blame to the husband for feeling this way..Unless he is personally attacking her and calling her names, I will have to say I also have had a hard time wanting to make love to someone you are not attractive to..

How many of you know heavy people – REALLY KNOW them – as in friends – I do..and guess what..the girls that I know..are NEVER attracted to their counterparts HEAVY guys, they actually find the much fit better looking guys…Just because their fat doesnt mean they would automatically find other fat people attractive…and you know what – nothing is wrong with feeling this way..Pencil me this – how many of YOU find fat people attractive – in a physical sense – bet that number will be extremely low…

Of course, you may say a PRETTY BOY will bring you nothing but problems, a think sexy lady will bring you nothing but problems..Hell – I have problems with a fat wife – Id rather be unhappy with someone at least thin than fat..Its like saying, Id rather be poor and happy than rich and unhappy – BS – Id rather be RICH AND HAPPY thant POOR AND HAPPY..

Ive met tons of great loving thin people..Fat people also abuse those who are thin and find something to say bad about them..but there is not one of them that will not want to trade the fat for the thin…Some people look good with some weight, I personally like a girl with some meat on her, I just dont like it when you know there is WAY too much – and it just doesnt look attractive. My wife has a very pretty face – but the rest of her body – disgusts me – but her personality – I will not trade that woman for any thin woman – ever – I love her for that – I never tell her she is Obese, only because she sees herself everyday when she showers, its too sensitve to say anything to her…So I try my best to give her as much loving without trying to notice the obesity – its alot of work – and its worth for me. I wish I could help her loose the weight, Im in pretty good shape, always have been lucky about it…

Just remember – and this goes for men and woman – there is a diff between love and attractiveness. Also, there is absolutely nothing wrong wanting to see your husband or wife in a physically attractive way. Its the way we are, of course there is more to that to make it work – but it plays a part.

Good luck with your wife. I know its hard to deal with it and although you dont expect her to probably loose all the weight. It will be nice to see her drop some pounds, it makes a world of a difference. Just sacrifice everything for her – help her on whatever – dont press it – its not easy to loose weight. At the end if she doesnt want to – well – life provides other options – none that I will suggest – but its human nature – that shit happens..
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By: sortega

sortega — Sun, 29 Nov 2009 08:29:59 +0000

First of all, don’t make her feel bad, she’s having a baby and she should not be dieting at this time. Tell her you love her and give her affection, maybe not sex, because women tend to be emotional eaters and not feeling loved will make her eat more.
Tell her something like this, " You know, I have been really feeling unhealthy lately and would like to get on track with a healthier diet and lifestyle." Ask her to exercise with you(try some light walking first, she will probably be out of shape), enlist her help in planning healthy meals for the two of you. Don’t buy the sugary drinks and sweets anymore. She may continue to gain, but she will be changing her habits for the better. She may like the new found energy that comes with being healthy, and she’ll be giving the baby a more healthy start. Continue exercising with her even after the baby is born. Get a couples gym membership(make sure you tell her it’s because you really need her moral support with your new lifestyle). You’ll be healthier for this too! But never, ever insult her or make her feel bad.
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By: lildragonlexi

lildragonlexi — Sun, 29 Nov 2009 08:27:59 +0000

How about a couples membership to a Fitness Club when she delivers the baby. She should take it as you wanting to help her lose the "baby fat", and if you keep on going regularly together, then she will continue to lose the baby fat and also some of the excess weight that she has gained. Make sure that you go regularly with her. You could probably use some toning up yourself.
Now that that is said, where do you get off with the comment of "….It’s not fair how life can deal me this kind of fate." Are you the exact same person now that you were when she married you? Probably not. So, while she is working on losing her weight…you need to work on your self-centeredness. The whole world does not revolve around you. Have you ever thought about why she gained all that weight? Maybe there are some issues within you that you need to deal with before you go trashing her.
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By: onlineseeker

onlineseeker — Sun, 29 Nov 2009 08:25:59 +0000

I never understand why so many females bash a man that would ask this question.

Ladies this is a health issue not a beauty issue. Men and women both need to watch their weight.

Not only do you owe it to your spouse to be:

Faithful, loving, kind, supportive, honest, and attentive to their romantic and sexual needs.

You have an obligation to take care of yourself.

Why is that so tough to understand?
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By: horsinround2do

horsinround2do — Sun, 29 Nov 2009 08:23:59 +0000

Well, you can't be too put off by the weight, she IS pregnant, isn't she? I guess you managed to get it up one time or two.
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By: tfjfiggers

tfjfiggers — Sun, 29 Nov 2009 08:21:59 +0000

Don't be discouraged my friend. What you do after the pregnancy is suggest that you two exercise or go to the gym together. That way you two can bond more and rekindle your marriage. When a woman gets pregnant she gains weight but after the pregnancy she loses some weight. Just don't give up because you still love her and she still loves you. Ask God to help you and He will began to touch your heart on behalf of your wife. God made you two marriage and He will heal your marriage. Do you believe that?Well it is true and He will do all that we ask or think. Stay encourage and know that things can and will change. God bless you.
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By: Darcee

Darcee — Sun, 29 Nov 2009 08:19:59 +0000

My friend 2cool the fat-fool don't be hating. Your quite the large one yourself, aren't you? Just keep having your flings like you do and let your wife find a real man. Sorry but i have no patience for a cheater that doesn't appreciate his wife. I know you know what i'm talking about. Talk to you later precious.
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By: rich2481

rich2481 — Sun, 29 Nov 2009 08:17:59 +0000

How slim and trim are you, ,does she want to lose,, I just watched this Dr. Oz on Oprah and he scared the hell out of me with this Omentum thing that attaches to our stomach and makes our guts so fat,

tell her you are worried about her health and with the kids you want her around a long time,

make her feel good about herself, most people overeat because sarotin is released in the small intenstine and makes us feel good,, so the more you eat the more you feel good,,
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